Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Here Are Some Tips That May Bring You A Beautiful Life !

Take a 10-30 minutes WALK everyday and while you walk, SMILE.
Sit in SILENCE for at least 10 minutes each day.


When you wake up in the morning, complete the following statement:
"My purpose is to ... today."


Live with 3 E's... ENERGY, ENTHUSIASM, EMPATHY;
and the 3 F's... FAITH, FAMILY, FRIENDS.


Spend more time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of six.
DREAM more while you are awake.
Try to make at least three people SMILE each day.


Realize that LIFE is a school and you are here to LEARN, pass all your tests.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.


Life isn't fair, but it still GOOD.
Life is too short to waste time hating and blaming anyone.


Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
You don't have to win every argument. AGREE to disagreements.


Make PEACE with your pass, so it won't mess up the present.
Don't compare your life with others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.


Burn the candles, use the nice sheets. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is SPECIAL.
No one is in charge of your happiness except YOU.
FORGIVE everyone for everything.


What other people think of you is none of your business.
Time heals almost everything. Give time, TIME.
However good or bad a situation is, it will CHANGE.


Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will stay in touch.
Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
The best is yet to come.


No matter how you feel, GET UP, DRESS UP and SHOW UP.
Do the right thing! Call your family often.


Each night before you go to bed, complete the following statements:
"I am thankful for ... "
"Today I accomplished ... "


Remember that you are blessed to be stressed.
Enjoy the ride. Remember that this is not Disney World and you certainly don't want a fast pass. Make the most of it and enjoy the ride.





To Be Continue... ^^

Thursday, August 18, 2011

人生,不完美才是完美 ~ Perfection of Life

最近发生了许许多多的事,让我从中得到启发。当中让我领悟到,人生是很玄妙的。时光流逝,没有人知道下一秒会发生什么事,是好事?惊喜?惊吓?或是意外?记得曾经有人说过,人生就像是日出日落般,有起有落,不可能是完美的。不久前,我读了一篇文章,喜欢上了这一句话:“人生,不完美才是完美。” ... ...


“人生不要太圆满,有个缺口让福气流向别人,是一件很美的事。

在一个讲究包装的社会里,我们常禁不住羡慕别人光鲜华丽的外表,而对自己的欠缺耿耿于怀。但就多年观察,发现没有一个人的生命是完整无缺的,每个人多少都欠缺了某些东西。

有人夫妻恩爱、月入数十万,却是有严重的不孕症;
有人才貌双全、能干多才,情字路上却是坎坷难行;
有人家财万贯,却是子孙不孝;
有人看似好命,却是一辈子脑袋空空。

每个人的生命,都被上苍划上了一道缺口,你不想要它,它却如影随形。
以前也许痛恨人生中的缺失,但现在却能宽心接受,因为体验到生命中的缺口,它仿佛是我们背上的一根刺,时时提醒我们谦卑,要懂得怜恤。


若没有苦难,我们会骄傲,没有沧桑,我们不会以同理心去安慰不幸的人。
请相信人生不要太圆满,有个缺口让福气流向别人是很美的一件事,你不需拥有全部的东西,若你样样俱全,那别人又怎样呢?
体验到每个生命都有欠缺,不会再与人作无谓的比较,反而更能珍惜自己所拥有的一切。

环顾上流社交场合中之达官显贵不知凡几,他们的外表实在都令人艳羡,但深究其里,每个人都有一本很难念的经,甚至苦不堪言。
所以,不要再去羡慕别人如何如何,好好数算上天给你的恩典,你会发现你所拥有的,绝对比没有的要多出许多。而缺失的那一部分,虽不可爱,却也是你生命的一部分,接受它且善待它,你的人生会快乐豁达许多。


如果你是一只蚌,你愿意受尽一生痛苦而凝结一颗珍珠,还是不要珍珠,宁愿舒舒服服的活着?
如果你是一只老鼠,你突然发现你已被关进捕鼠笼,而你前面有一块香喷喷的蛋糕,这时,你究竟是吃还是不吃呢?
早期的扑满都是陶器,一旦存满了钱,就要被人敲碎;另外的一个扑满,从没有钱投进来,一直保存到今天,他就成了贵重的古董。你愿意做哪一种扑满?”


面对以上的问题,都会觉得矛盾,因为每个人的想法都不同。要成大器,就得付出,经得起考验;还是要平平淡淡的过生活?
人生没有十全十美,人就是要历经许许多多的事物,才会从中摄取经验,不断成长。要接近完美,就得经得起考验,克服恐惧,勇于接受生命的挑战,也就是生命中的不完美。



To Be Continue...